To build off my extrovert vs introvert post. I hate when friends insult you and that it is a tolerated part of the friendship.
Ive never liked it my entire life. I just let it go so that I would I actually have friends. Ive been apart of many groups of friends. I had one group in elementary/junior high. I was in another group in high school. And I was in a third group in college. All these people were backstabbing pieces of shit. We would always make fun of each other. But they would always do it in front of girls etc. Towards the end of college I was fed up this. I got tired of never getting girls cuz someone made fun of me.
Girls are stupid for the most part. They dont think for themselves. They go with the general consensus regardless if its right or wrong. A lot of them dont even think about either choice they just go with the majority rule. So if a group of guys is making fun of someone they will join the group against them. If one girl rejects you she will poison other girls against you as well. This is my experience/opinion.
I dont like making friends anymore. I am in my 30s and I am just fed up with all the games. People try to put you down in front of other people to make themselves look good. I am not quick with the comebacks either so I will just insult the guy back. I will bring in their sister dying of cancer if I have to get back at them. If you don't want to be insulted dont fuck with me. Otherwise I will get nasty.
Idk what the problem with dating is. I never understood why girls will just ignore your text to reject you. It takes 2 seconds to answer. Say "no" or say "Im busy". Everyone knows girls look at their phones 24/7. Anyway if a girl ignores my text I will delete the number and never speak to her again. As far I am concerned the ball is in her court. If I see her I will not even come up to her. And if she says something to me I will try to end the conversation quickly. You ignore me I ignore you back.
I am not a casanova by a long shot. I stopped asking out girls and trying to make friends cuz honestly it was making me miserable for the aforementioned reasons. I would like to get married and have kids but it is really not my decision to make its hers. In the mean time I am pretty happy doing my hobbies.
On another matter I never understood why people ignore texts. Just say you are not interested or have other things going on. Maybe the world would be a better place if people were more truthful.
Some girl came up to me and we were talking. She was very good looking. I would never go up to her myself cuz she was too good looking and I didnt think I would have a shot. Anway I guess she thought was funny cuz she kept on grabbing my arm and laughing. Then she asked me for my number. In my head I was thinking no way I cant believe this. We exchanged numbers. So guess what happened? I texted her and she ignores my text. Wtf? I was crushed. Even though I dont like my texts being ignored I understand that is the risk I take in asking for it. But this time I didnt ask she asked me. Come on. I saw her again 3 months later. I saw her she didnt see and I went to the other side of the room cuz I wanted no part of her conversation cuz I felt like shit as soon as I saw her. She looked hot that day too. But I stayed away. She noticed me 45 minutes later. I heard her talking shit to her friends about how I didnt say hello to her.
Idk Ive been in the situation many times before that day and Ive gone up to the girl and gotten nothing and felt foolish and wished that I had done nothing. So that time I said fuck it I am keeping out of it and let her come to me. Of course that gets me nothing as well lol. With girls all the answer choices seem to be wrong. If I ask them out they say no. If I dont ask them out I still dont get the date. Go figure.
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